Too Often

"Oh Ms. Briz! A sparkly!!"

So says one of my favorite characters — one in whom I see quite a lot of myself — in one of my favorite children's movies called, The Secret of NIMH. I'm so much like Jeremy the bird; so attracted to sparkly, shiny, new things! I've not always been on top of the trends, but I've always loved having something new and sparkly to play with. I stole silver dollars from my sister's drawer as a child, but as an adult I've learned to pay for all my shinys myself. However, that can cause another issue — which we will discuss at another time.

Lately I've been eying all things Apple. I've drooled over the new iPads for— well, since they were announced! AND I just bought myself a shiny new iPhone4…. which won't be delivered until after July 14th.

Can I tell you how much that kills a sparkly lover like me!

Target is the worst place in the world for me. It's like a candy store to a hungry kid. All this great shiny stuff, and at a discounted rate. I see something and say to myself, 'oh I need this, and it's only ten dollars,' over and over till my cart is full. Then I wonder why my bill is over a hundred dollars!

It's amazing how easily I am distracted by sparkly things; by things that look wonderful on the outside, but truthfully have no real substance on the inside. I never seem to remember that these things don't satisfy me when I'm caught up in the scintillating rush of excitement of possibly owning something that dazzling.

But satisfy me they do not. And soon they are cast aside with all the other aging sparklies to lay in a pile in my closet, or in a drawer somewhere. Never used again. Eventually I'll come across it during some cleaning binge and wonder what in the world I was thinking when I bought that??

I'm realizing more and more how spiritually immature I am. My mind is more often on me and my problems — my needs and wants and desires, all the sparklys and shiny new things — rather than on God and bringing HIm glory. More on talking about myself than talking about Him — even when I'm talking to Him. More about getting for me, rather than giving of me so that someone else can see Him.

Too often I forget the mercy and grace He lavishes on me every day. I don't thank Him for my life, for another day to live for Him each morning. I forget so quickly that He doesn't have to have grace and mercy on me. I forget that He is being patient and kind and generous with all of us in holding back His judgment so that everyone has ample chance to turn to Him.

Too often I forget that someday soon the streets will run red with the blood of those who rebelled against Him, who took His grace and mercy and kindness and patience for granted, assuming that it would always be offered. I forget that some day His judgment will finally be poured out in full on this earth. Some of those rebels are people I love! Like them, too often I assume His mercy will never end, His judgment will never be poured out.

Oh, Jesus, help me remember all these things every day! Get up in my face and remind me that time is short! That sparklys don't satisfy, only YOU can satisfy me! Remind me daily I was created to bring You GLORY! And that this is the greatest thing I could ever do on this earth, iPhone or no, to bring You glory!

   God, teach me lessons for living
      so I can stay the course.
   Give me insight so I can do what you tell me—
      my whole life one long, obedient response.
   Guide me down the road of your commandments;
      I love traveling this freeway!
   Give me a bent for your words of wisdom,
      and not for piling up loot.
   Divert my eyes from toys and trinkets,

      invigorate me on the pilgrim way.
    (Psalm 119:36-37, The Message)

Justice

I’ve been asked to be on the board of directors for a new non-profit. I’m very excited about it all! I’m excited about its mission and the possibilities it will have as well as getting to be a part of its initial process, the ground floor as was, as it begins.

During our first board meeting this week we had a long discussion on the meaning of the word "justice." I and another member had one meaning fixed in our heads, while most of the rest of the board had another. The more we talked, the more obvious it became that none of us was willing to concede our views to the other. It wasn’t a contentious discussion, nor even in the slightest bit heated. Just nine people with two very definite pictures of justice. It got me to wondering…

What is your definition of justice? I’m not looking for the "official" Webster’s definition. I can look that up for myself. What I want to know is, when you here the word "justice," what do you think of — and perhaps even what do you think of first or overwhelmingly? What comes to your mind and why?

Global Mission Primer

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Tony Sheng has a great primer on global mission which everyone needs to check out. It’s an outline of what he talks to his students about when they approach him with interest in going on a mission trip.

One of the things that struck me most as I looked over the resources he links to is this particular gem on the disparity of personnel to peoples. Where Workers Serve shows a map with workers per millions of people. It’s an eye-opener, even for someone like me, who served NAME, one of the most personnel-starved regions of the IMB. I knew we were woefully lacking in workers, but I had forgotten how bad it is. South Asia, however, is the lowest. That breaks my heart, since it is a place and people so dear to my heart.

Tony sums up the depth of the problem by saying,

A tiny fraction of the global Church’s resources are going to the
unreached. The going estimate is .5% – right,
half of one percent. So
for every $100, fifty cents is going to support the unreached. Not just
budget and spending, but human capital as well.
(emphasis mine)

Un.Believable.

And then there’s this:

Ninety-seven percent of the world’s trained youth workers live and work
in the United States, ministering to less than 3% of the world’s youth
population.

What are we doing, Church? What are we doing?

Go check the rest of it out, including the links. Print out the map of Where Workers Serve and pin it up somewhere you will see it every day.

And then do something.

Mission, Through Our Eyes

Through_her_eyes1_2 My friend, Marti, has been an inspiration to me since I met her in late 2000/early 2001. She worked as a coordinator/trainer and writer for Caleb Project for many years and now works for Pioneers doing much the same thing. She trained our team, along with another team, in ethnographic research and was pretty much my mentor, encourager, strategist and counselor as I walked through the process of co-leading the team as the Research Coordinator while we were in India and then as the primary writer once we were home.

Marti’s detail-oriented mind and incredible ability to focus make her the perfect person to edit reports, prayer guides and video scripts. But it’s in her creativity, incredible writing talent and deep love for Jesus and His Kingdom workers on the front lines that we can see her heart and passions.

She’s written a book about women missionaries on the field, the challenges they face, they opportunities they have and the incredible impact they make on the world in which they serve. Its a unique book in many ways. You need to check it out.

I have been blessed in so many ways to know a great many women who serve, or have served, overseas. Their unique perspective on life, ministry and the culture in which they serve challenged me to be more intentional in my own life. I will be forever grateful for their investment in me. Their impact can best be seen, I think, in my own ministry. The taught me to be a lifelong learner, a lover of people and an observer of culture, all without ever losing my own identity and uniqueness. Marti is one of those influential women. In honor of her, and her book, I thought I’d give you a glimpse through my eyes of my favorite place I have lived overseas.

I cannot think of Marti and not think of India, nor India and not think of Marti. The two are forever connected. And I have incredible memories of both. Sometimes I dream moving to India someday. However, as a woman, I think it was probably the hardest place I lived. The "eve-teasing," the constant attempts to feel me up on crowded buses and trains, the butt slaps by strangers and the lewd looks were difficult. I learned the elbow jab and toe stomp (for the bus rides) with the best of ’em, ride the women’s car on the trains and I worked hard to develop a thick skin for the rest. I also faced challenges with disrespect from rickshaw drivers and merchants who wanted to "re-negotiate" the price halfway through our transaction simply because I was a woman, or a foreigner, or both. I had one rickshaw driver pull over in the middle of a bridge crossing the Yamuna river and change the fare. I balked, of course, and told him absolutely not. When he refused to move until I agreed, I got out and started to walk — without paying him. It didn’t matter to me that there wasn’t another rickshaw "stop" for… miles, probably, or that I had absolutely no idea how to get to my friend’s home. I was not going to be bullied out of a fair deal agreed upon by the driver simply because he thought an American woman could be. The driver quickly gave in when he realized he either got the agreed-to fare, or no fare at all. I got back in and we finished our ride. That was empowering. As a woman I’d not experienced such a victory over obvious discrimination. And it felt good! 🙂

Two things I remember most about India are the smells and the temple bells. It’s odd how smells can take you right back to a significant memory with vivid clarity. Last month I walked out of my office building on my way home for the evening and was assaulted with the most intense smell. It wasn’t Nashville’s normal smell. You didn’t know that places, states, cities, countries all have unique smells of their own, did you. They really do. Nashville — Tennessee really — smells like wet grass and green growing things. At least it did until this drought. But the smell that smacked me in the face that evening wasn’t Nashville; it was the oily smoky mixture of burning trash, oils and spices of India. It smelled like India. I was instantly transported back to Delhi and half-expected to see a cow standing in the middle of the street stubbornly refusing to move despite a cacophony of honking horns, making drivers swerve or take a detour to get where they want to go. Wild! How does Nashville go from smelling like wet grass to smelling like India? I puzzled over that for days, until my boss mentioned that the current jet stream and wind patterns had pushed all the smoke from the fires in Georgia north all the way into Nashville. Smoke. The smell of something burning. But where the smells of oil and spices came from I will never know. Marti commented once that she ended up throwing all her clothes away after coming home from India. The smell is so pungent and pervasive that it is impossible to wash out of your clothes, no matter how hard you try. I will never forget that smell, and oddly enough, I grew to love it. When I smelled it last month my heart literally ached for Delhi.

There was a Lakshmi temple right behind our flat in Delhi. Every morning about 5 am or so the priests would come out and ring a huge lattice work of bells, to wake the gods and get their attention. I don’t remember exactly how long they rang them, just that it usually felt like an eternity. My room opened up into the street in front of the temple, which was really more of an alley; the concrete buildings on either side of it couldn’t have been more than ten feet apart. It looked more like a courtyard than a street. The priests rang their bells out on the street three floors down but pretty much right outside my window and the sound echoed up and down the alley, reverberating between the concrete walls. That sound quickly became my own call to worship. A call to pray for all those who would enter the temple that day, praying to the gods for peace, prosperity, safety and answers. I knew their efforts were in vain, that those little "gods" couldn’t truly satisfy, and my fervent prayer became that God, the One True God, would thwart those "gods’" efforts to keep His beloved creation in bondage to their service; that He would stir the heart of every person who entered that temple, that he would unmask and uncover the deep dissatisfaction they felt, so they would become desperately aware of the intense hunger of their souls. I prayed that that intense hunger would drive them to search for the only One who can truly satisfy. Every morning, when the bells rang, I got on my face before my God and begged Him to sweep across the city and make Himself known to these wonderfully beautiful, dynamic passionate people in a powerful and undeniable way.

The smells and the bells. And the beautiful amazing women I met and with whom I forged relationships; the beauty of the culture and the myriad of bridges to the gospel within it. These are the things I cherish about India. They made all the frustration, "eve teasing", sleepless nights and personal struggles worth it. India is forever tattooed on, and embedded in my heart. And I owe this blessing to all the mission-focused women like Marti who invested in me and gave me the gifts of their wisdom and encouragement. I think I’m the luckiest woman alive.

God’s Chew Toy

It seems my last post started a few people thinking. Among them is Larry, my always intelligent, curious, warrior-hearted dear friend. He has a way of taking the things I mean as sarcastic slams at my current "lot in life" (and often passive-aggressively at God) and turning them into positive images of God’s love. How does he do that??

Larry took my rant, drenched it in God-focus and came out with this:

Still, we’re all chew toys to someone or something. God is completely serious about making us able to live in His kingdom.[…]  We bear God’s toothmarks in direct relationship to how much we let him love us, and I suppose that starts with learning how much we need his love. Sometimes finding and picking up that stray sheep isn’t a gentle process. I’m convinced that God makes it as gentle as possible, but I hang on to my old deadly ideas with a death grip that only loosens with time and experience. Maybe it’s God’s saliva dripping over me that dissolves the old ways of living and seeing and thinking. (emphasis mine)

I know it sounds crazy, but I like the idea of bearing God’s teethmarks. It’s kind of like bearing His imprint, having His fingerprints all over my life, except with a long-lasting mark (fingerprints can be wiped off, after all). They aren’t like the open wounds from an angry dog, but they do leave punctures in my soul. I know ultimately it’s a good thing;  it means He’s making me into something new. I just wish His teeth weren’t so sharp.

I realize they have to be that way to fend off attackers and soul-stealers. I’ve seen God bare those sharp babies at my enemies. It’s truly a beautiful sight to behold. I remember reading somewhere that God just starts to get up from His throne and Satan and his minions scatter like roaches when the lights come on. If He can cause evil to tremble and hide without even baring His sharp teeth, think of how much more He accomplishes in protecting us when He does.

Yet for all my talk of embracing the idea of bearing God’s teethmarks, I’m still fighting against the reality that I’m His personal chew toy. I guess everyone wants to believe they were created for a noble purpose. I’m no different. Being gnawed and slobbered on till I’m like soggy rawhide just doesn’t sound lofty to me at all. Yet, when I view it through Larry’s eyes, I can see its exaltation.

This is the core of our preaching. Say the welcoming word to God—"Jesus is my Master"—embracing, body and soul, God’s work of doing in us what he did in raising Jesus from the dead. That’s it. You’re not "doing" anything; you’re simply calling out to God, trusting him to do it for you. That’s salvation. With your whole being you embrace God setting things right, and then you say it, right out loud: "God has set everything right between him and me!" — Romans 10:8-10 The Message

What I’m getting at, friends, is that you should simply keep on doing what you’ve done from the beginning. When I was living among you, you lived in responsive obedience. Now that I’m separated from you, keep it up. Better yet, redouble your efforts. Be energetic in your life of salvation, reverent and sensitive before God. That energy is God’s energy, an energy deep within you, God himself willing and working at what will give him the most pleasure. — Phil 2:12-13 The Message

Purpose

I don’t think I get it yet. I don’t think I’ve connected yet with what this whole Abundant Life thing is all about.

I keep getting confused. I keep thinking it’s all about doing something. Whether its great or small doesn’t matter. Its just about doing something. But that doesn’t seem to be God’s intention for me.

Oh, I’m doing stuff. I’ve been so buried in school work lately that I’ve barely had time to think. And I’ve also got work and church stuff and friends…

I’m talking about the Big Mission Thing; that big Purpose for living thing that most people seem to have (or is that just my imagination?). You know, that thing that grabs you and holds you in its grip and says, "you must see me through to the end. Only you can do it!" with so much intensity that you cannot refuse. I hear people talk about it all the time. About how this one thing took hold of them and they had-had-had to see it done. Or how they’ve dreamed about a particular thing all their lives and just couldn’t rest until they’d accomplished that.

I have no such cause, no such dreams, no such… anything. I’ve always wanted one. Just one, I’m not selfish. I don’t need a bunch. I just wanted one powerful, compelling all-consuming Mission to overtake me and drive me down a path of radical change for the world around me. But I never got it, never had it. Not even one.

I just have life. And God. And that’s it.

He keeps asking me why that’s not enough. Why He’s not enough for me.

I don’t have an answer. At least not one that makes sense. I mean, how do you tell the God of all creation, the Alpha and Omega, the God who’s so compassionate and gracious that He gave His own life so that I could live without condemnation, how do you tell Him that He’s not enough?

That’s why I say I don’t think I get it yet. God seems to want me to just Be, to just rest in Him and be who He’s transforming me into, while everything in me screams that I must Do; that doing is the only thing that makes life worth living. "Without the doing, what’s the point??? I can ‘Be’ in heaven. Why leave me here??"

God doesn’t answer that question, except to say, "for My good pleasure."

Great. I’m some chew-toy for God? That’s nice.

For those of you newbies just stopping in, this may seem disrespectful. I assure you, I have the greatest respect for God. I once heard Beth Moore describe agape love as "high regard or esteem". That’s an over-simplified paraphrase of her 45-minutes on the subject, but it serves my purpose here. I do hold God in the highest regard/esteem. He is my life. He is my Beloved. He is all I have.

Perhaps that’s part of my struggle. It scares me out of my mind to put all my hope and trust in one place. Its not…. it’s not "safe".

But I’m not meaning disrespect with my chew-toy comment. I’m just pissed off that God won’t give me what I ask for. And God seems to know that I will eventually come back and sit with Him, ready to talk about it again.

This is an on-going battle I have with God, this need for Purpose beyond just "Being". And I suppose, like Jonah, I’ll be stuck in this particular whale belly until I can truly surrender to it. I’m trying. This weekend I again wrestled with God over it all, with neither of us giving an inch. I’m just not ready to surrender yet to something that makes no sense to me at all. I just don’t get it yet.

Mastectomy Hospital Bill in Congress

I received this email this morning.  It’s an important issue to me because I had a friend die of breast cancer, and another woman important to me is currently walking through it. I would guess that pretty much every woman has been affected by this issue – either you know someone or you are that someone who is a cancer survivor.  Please read the message below then click on the link and sign the petition. Perhaps together we can make a difference.  May God richly bless all of you.

A mastectomy is a procedure that removes a woman’s breast in order to remove cancerous cells/tissue.  If you know anyone who has had a mastectomy, you may know that there is a lot of discomfort and pain afterward.  Insurance companies are trying to make mastectomies an outpatient procedure.  Let’s give women the chance to recover properly in the hospital for 2 days after surgery.  It takes 2 seconds to do this and is very important.  Please take the time and do it quickly!

Breast Cancer Hospitalization bill — Important legislation for all women.

If there was ever a time when our voices and choices should be heard, this is one of those times.  If you’re receiving this, it’s because I think you will take the 30 seconds to go sign the petition on this issue and send it on to others you know who will do the same.  There’s a bill called the Breast Cancer Patient Protection Act which will require insurance companies to cover a minimum 48-hour hospital stay for patients undergoing a mastectomy.  It’s about eliminating the "drive-through mastectomy" where women are forced to go home just a few hours after surgery, against the wishes of their doctor, still groggy from anesthesia and sometimes with drainage tubes still attached.  Lifetime Television has put this bill on their weg page with a petition drive to show your support.  Last year over half the House signed.

PLEASE sign the petition by clicking on the link below.  You need not give more than your name and zip code.  PLEASE pass this on to your friends and family on behalf of all women.

http://www.lifetimetv.com/breastcancer/petition/signpetition.php 

Irrevocable, or Just Passionate?

God’s gifts and God’s call are under full warranty—never canceled, never rescinded. — Romans 11:29 (The  Message)

I realize this verse is actually referring to something else when taken in context, but it’s what echoed through my mind this afternoon and evening. See, Wade did it again; got me to thinking about the mission field overseas and helped me once again connect with the reality that my heart breaks for Japan, and India, and to so many other places.

Around this time five years ago, I was sitting in a hotel room in Richmond, Virginia at the beginning of the candidate process to serve long-term with the IMB. Four years ago I was overseas, finishing up a 6-week trip in Ethiopia heading back to my "home" in Cyprus, and wondering what in the world had I gotten myself into. Three years ago I was in desperate pain grieving the losses of my parents, my job, my home and my dream of being a missionary. I never thought I’d recover. Two years ago I was swearing I would never again serve overseas, but feeling guilty for it, and last year I realized I am finally content to once again live my life stateside outside the realm of official ministry.

So why is it today my heart was stirred like it hasn’t been in many years? Why is it when I went to the IMB website and looked at the current opportunities, all the openings I sawMary_lu_india in South Asia, particularly several in the city I lived in 2001 and one with the people group I learned about, learned from and became friends with–why is it those openings so excited me I began thinking through the process I might take (as well as the length of time it would take) to ultimately fill one of those positions — or something like it. Why is it, when I finally decided the issue was settled, the love affair with overseas ministry was over and I was content, my heart is stirred and excited?

Is it true — could it be true — that once God lays His hand on your life for a particular service, that that call is just as irrevocable as His call to Follow, or His command to Go?

Why I’m Voting No on 1

Just about the time I get all calmed down and peaceful like, I pick up another paper, or watch yet another news story on how James Dobson, Dick Land or Jerry Sutton want me to be sure to "keep my Christian values in mind" when I go to the polls this November (or this week…). It happened again today.

I sat down at Crest Honda to wait on my baby’s first oil change (that’s "ohl" to you Tennesseans) and as I’m flipping through the latest version of The Scene, I come across an article about Monday night’s dueling rallies for Amendment One. The language quoted from the Two Rivers rally both angered and saddened me.

I realize I am an anomaly in Tennessee. Even more so considering I am, what most statisticians and pollsters would classify an "evangelical/born again/fundamentalist Christian." (why do they lump us all together like that????) –Truthfully, I’m evangelical and born again, but I doubt I’m really a true fundamentalist. But I still end up lumped in with them. Anyway –Current polls show this amendment will pass with between 60% to 70% of the vote. So why am I swimming upstream against my "fellow" born-againer fundies? Well, let me tell you.

First, for those of you outside Tennessee — and those inside who have been living in a cave lo this past year — "1" (or "One"… whatever…) is an amendment to Tennessee’s constitution. Officially called "Tennessee Marriage Amendment", it would limit any recognized marriages in Tennessee to those between a man and a woman. Even if a gay couple has been legally married in another state, Tennessee will not, cannot, recognize it.

I can already hear my some of my friends gasping, exclaiming, "why on earth would you vote no on such a thing, Lu? Don’t you believe in the sanctity of marriage? Don’t you know that God sees same-sex marriage as sin?"

Yes, I do. And, No, I don’t — at least not any more so than same-sex sex/relationship outside of marriage.

Look, I could write a whole post just on my deep conviction that homosexuality is sin, with all the Scriptural references to back it up. It would include my own understanding of how sin, from Adam on, has impacted every aspect and element of creation; including genetics, which can strongly influence a person’s proclivity for same-sex attraction.

But that’s not the point here. And its not the reason why I’m voting NO on this amendment.

There are a couple of facts that need to be stated. First, this amendment is wholly unnecessary. In 1996, a proposition was put on the Tennessee ballot and passed, which effectively banned same-sex marriage in this state. The amendment was proposed after the Massachusetts Supreme Court, in 2003, struck down a similar proposition passed in that state. It is a way of ensuring that ’96 proposition will not be set aside as "unconstitutional".

Second, and obviously connected to the first, the failure of Amendment One would not open wide Tennessee’s doors to the possibility of gay marriage becoming legal in the state. For reasons clearly stated above (1996).

Those are the facts. This amendment is unnecessary. This amendment is redundant.

Here’s the Truth.  Passing this amendment will not "save", "protect" or in any way salvage the "sanctity" or "purity" of marriage. It cannot. It is powerless to effect the heart changes necessary to do such a thing. It is not the homosexual community who has ravaged the purity and sanctity, the set-apartness, of marriage. It is the heterosexual community, and dare I say, the "Christian" community, who has done the most damage to the institution of marriage and could ultimately destroy the ideal of it in our culture. It is those who choose mediocrity in their relationship with their spouse over sacrifice and passion, who change marriage partners as often as they change their wardrobe, who value their own comfort and their own needs above those of their spouses and children who destroy its sanctity. And it is those who wield marriage and family as weapons in a "values war" who destroy the purity of the marriage commitment and the sanctity of the marriage vow.

Jerry Sutton, pastor of Two Rivers Baptist Church, claimed at Monday night’s rally that we Christians are at "war against homosexual militants" and "debauchery". How can a pastor of such a large church be so incredibly clueless? No wonder we’re vilified in television shows and ridiculed in comedy clubs. No wonder we’re disliked by so many. We have idiots preaching from our "pulpits".

Even a cursory glance at the Bible brings abundant clarity that Jerry Sutton is flat-out wrong. Perhaps he is waging a personal war against "homosexual militants", but God certainly is not. He never has and He never will.

Paul makes it very clear that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil in this world and against every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God. (Eph 6:12, 2 Cor 10:4-5). The Message puts it this way:

The tools of our trade aren’t for marketing or manipulation, but they are for demolishing that entire massively corrupt culture. We use our powerful God-tools for smashing warped philosophies, tearing down barriers erected against the truth of God, fitting every loose thought and emotion and impulse into the structure of life shaped by Christ.

Jerry Sutton, rather than demolishing corruption, instead erected a barrier against the truth of God with his statements Monday night. Many others have done the same, all in the name of "preserving," and "protecting" marriage. Jerry Sutton has a warped philosophy and its time we as his sisters and brothers stood up and said, "no more."

Jesus did not rage against homosexuals or "sinners" when He walked this earth. To the contrary, He openly embraced and loved them, fellowshipped with them, and made it clear it was for them that He came, for them He died and for them He conquered death and lives today. So that they may have Life.

Nor did Jesus ever demand that the sinners He fellowshipped with ever live up to laws of Moses given to God’s people. Rather, He loved them just as they were, accepted them just as they were and invited them to follow Him and learn a new, more abundant way to live. He never forced His will or His rules upon them.  He is the same today. He does not force His will or His law upon anyone.

The religious zealots, on the other hand, like those of Jerry Sutton, Dick Land and James Dobson, those are the people that Jesus raged against. Them He declared "war" against — overturning tables, calling them hypocrites and snakes. For they were the ones that kept writing more and more rules for everyone to follow, more and more laws for everyone to obey, more and more hoops for a person to jump through in order to be found acceptable to God.

Amendment One will not protect marriage. All it will do is create yet another barrier between those Jesus loves and those of us who claim to follow Him. The gay community is already denied legal rights regarding the care of their own children, their own partners and their own loved ones that even an unmarried heterosexual couple enjoy under the law. Why kick them in the stomach when they’re already down?

I have said it before, the United States is not a "Christian" nation, nor was it ever meant to be. It was created as a safe haven for people of all religions. However, it is a Christianized nation, with a brand of Christianity that is more cultural than Biblical. If we are going to perpetrate Christianity on our country, let it at least be Biblical, with all the love and grace and respect God reveals in His Word.

Forcing nonbelievers to live like they are believers may seem "morally righteous" but, in truth, it’s cruel. They have neither the understanding nor the power of the Holy Spirit with which to overcome the enemy and live in freedom under the standards God sets for us, His followers. God never forces nonbelievers to live by the same standards as His people. Rather, He calls His people to live by standards that would cause the world around us to stand up and take notice, in order that HE might have the glory and honor when His people are able to point to Him as the source of the ability to live by such freedom, grace, hope and love.

That is why I’m voting NO on One.